I have usually admired couples who are in a long-distance relationship. I mean…admired from a distance…By no means thought I would willingly put myself in that kind of scenario.

“There is no way on Earth I would do that” I always thought. “Too much torture”

Little did I know that I will come across myself in one.

It began unexpectedly, and when we began communicating on-line, I had absolutely no concept that our interaction would develop into what it is right now.

The thing is, I guess, that when you meet the proper person and you are completely sure that this is the individual you want to be with, you suddenly locate yourself able to make sacrifices and you find your self in circumstances that you may possibly have considered unbearable before. But when you meet that individual, the 1 that you are in sync with, on the same page as they say, some thing tells you that this person is worth it.

I do admit, it is not getting any easier – fairly opposite. It’s tough. On the one hand, you know there is a person out there who thinks about you, who desires you and you know you are not alone. In a bigger picture you are not. But you have to endure those days and nights when you are alone and you wish you could be with your baby.

Luckily there are techniques to deal with this type of loneliness. As soon as I turn my pc on and I see my baby, I feel much better. We talk and laugh and we are connected. I see him, his apartment, and I can share his day or evening with him. We can cook together, play games or watch a movie together. It makes it a little bit far more bearable.

The only part that hurts is that I can’t touch him. I can’t express myself in so several methods, in which I am longing to express myself. The way I feel about him.

On one hand, this allowed us (or forced us) not to rush into anything. I value it when a relationship develops on other grounds than physical. We could express ourselves on so numerous distinct levels. We had sufficient time to get to know each other so well… As time was passing by and we were progressing with this relationship, we explored each other’s minds, personalities, thoughts, we listened to every other without being distracted by anything physical.

I will not lie – of course I was attracted to him physically as soon as I saw his picture and I know he was more than intrigued by my physique.

But the beauty in this was that the distance allowed us to build a strong base of our relationship. I am glad about how we started. By the time we met for the first time, we knew every other so well and we had been already friends. That is something I strongly value in a relationship, in fact, I know I would not want a relationship with out friendship. What is better than to start with a friendship? To produce a strong base you can build everything else on?

It was this connection that instantly enhanced the physicality so a lot a lot more and made it so significantly much more intense….Since we waited for as lengthy as we did, when we finally did experience each other, looked in every other’s eyes for the initial time, reached out and touched every other’s skin, when our lips met for the 1st time, and all our desires had been finally allowed to surface….it instantly became some thing so much a lot more magical. Unforgettable…forever imprinted in my memory. No doubt about it.

Relationship Long Distance…temporary torture or blessing in disguise?